At homeBlind Taste-Test Night
Pick five snacks or drinks, hide the labels, and score each one for flavor and surprise. Add one decoy item neither of you would normally buy.
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01At-Home Date Ideas02Cheap & Free Date Ideas03Romantic Date Ideas04Playful Date Ideas & Games05Outdoor & Adventure Date Ideas06First Date Ideas07Date Ideas for Married Couples08Date Ideas for Parents09Creative & DIY Date Ideas10Food & Drink Date Ideas11Fall Date Ideas12Winter Date Ideas13Spring & Summer Date Ideas14Daytime Date Ideas15Unique Date Ideas
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At homeLiving-Room Floor Picnic
Clear the coffee table, spread out a blanket, and eat finger food on the floor. Choose one song each that belongs on the picnic soundtrack.
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At homeTwo-Person Bookstore at Home
Pull books from your shelves and each choose three passages to read aloud. End by writing a one-line review of the other person’s picks.
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At homePower-Outage Date
Turn off the main lights, put phones away, and spend the evening by candles or lanterns. Cook or assemble something that needs no stove and no scrolling.
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At homeTiny Restaurant Night
Write a three-item menu from what you already have and take turns being chef and guest. Name the restaurant after an inside joke and handwrite the bill.
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At homeAlbum From Start to Finish
Choose one album, play it in order, and listen without doing anything else. Each pick the track you would keep if the rest disappeared.
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01At-Home Date Ideas40 ideas
Blind Taste-Test NightLiving-Room Floor PicnicTwo-Person Bookstore at HomePower-Outage DateTiny Restaurant NightAlbum From Start to FinishPhoto-Story SwapFive-Dollar Grocery ChallengeKitchen Dance LessonBuild a Blanket CinemaQuestion Jar After DarkHome Cafe CrawlOne-Corner Mood MakeoverChildhood Snack Re-creationMini Film FestivalCouples Trivia DraftMake a House Cocktail and MocktailBackyard or Balcony BistroPuzzle With a PlaylistRecipe RouletteRead a Play TogetherHome Spa Trade-OffDesign Your Dream SundayIndoor CampoutMake Each Other a Mini MuseumAt-Home Comedy ClubShared Playlist With RulesPantry Tapas NightHome Portrait SessionOrigami and TakeoutRewatch the PilotDessert Before DinnerBoard-Game RemixFuture Postcard NightMake a Two-Person ZineCopycat Restaurant DishNo-Phone Living-Room HourLearn One Magic TrickWindow Weather Sketch DateBreakfast-for-Dinner Lab
Read the at home guide 02Cheap & Free Date Ideas30 ideas
Sunset Bench DraftLibrary Surprise PicksNeighborhood Architecture WalkThrift-Store Gift LimitFree Museum HourTransit Line AdventureOne-Camera Photo WalkPublic Art HuntGrocery Aisle Passport DatePark Games DecathlonCommunity Calendar First-Date RouletteFarmers Market Ten-Dollar TourPlayful Park Movement SwapCoffee and People-WatchingDollar-Store Craft-OffFree Local Landmark TourPicnic From the PantryWindow-Shopping Dream HouseOpen-Mic Drop-InGeocache Starter DateDog-Watching Park WalkFree Trial Class DateCleanup-and-Picnic DateUsed-Book Five-Dollar HuntPublic Garden Sketch DateBackyard Star MapLocal History Audio WalkFree Concert Lawn NightTwenty-Question City WalkForgotten Gift-Card Date
Read the cheap & free guide 03Romantic Date Ideas25 ideas
Re-create Your First Shared MealSunrise Coffee DateLetters for the Next Hard WeekSlow Dinner With Three CoursesYour Relationship Soundtrack WalkOne-Night StaycationStargazing With a Shared BlanketCouples Massage TradeMemory Lane DriveDress-Up Takeout NightShared Dream MapPrivate Museum HourDessert Tasting for TwoRainy Window DinnerRead Old Messages NightFlower Market MorningOne Perfect HourFavorite Place After DarkCook From a Love StoryTwo-Person Candlelit ConcertAnniversary of an Ordinary DayRowboat or Paddleboat HourPhoto Print and Frame DateMidweek Hotel-Lobby DrinkPlan the Date You Keep Postponing
Read the romantic guide 04Playful Date Ideas & Games25 ideas
Mini-Golf With Bonus RulesArcade Token DraftTrivia Night Team of TwoPhoto Scavenger HuntCo-op Video Game NightBowling With Secret MissionsEscape Room Strategy DateTwo-Person Field DayBlind Drawing DuelMystery Ingredient ChallengeKaraoke Category BattleTabletop TournamentThrifted Outfit ChallengeGuess the Song in Three SecondsPool Hall Best-of-FiveDarts Around the WorldImprov Prompt NightLego Build-OffCard Game With Conversation StakesAlphabet Date SprintClaw Machine Budget BattleBad Movie BingoPickleball Beginner MatchCouples Quiz ShowPaper Airplane Flight Lab
Read the playful & games guide 05Outdoor & Adventure Date Ideas20 ideas
Golden-Hour Trail WalkKayak a Quiet LoopBotanical Garden BingoBike to One Good SnackBeginner Bouldering DateBirding Before BrunchPaddleboard Balance DatePicnic Hike With One ViewOutdoor Sculpture RouteCampfire Dessert NightHorseback Trail LessonTide-Pool Observation DateOrchard Picking ChallengeDisc Golf First RoundWaterfall Destination WalkOutdoor Yoga SwapNight Market Wandering DateCanoe and Shore LunchNature Center Micro-SafariSunrise Fishing Lesson
Read the outdoors guide 06First Date Ideas20 ideas
Coffee Plus One BlockBookstore Three-Pick DateMuseum One-Room DateIce Cream and a Short WalkFarmers Market First LapRecord Store Listening PicksMini-Golf First MatchBotanical Garden LoopCasual Lunch Counter DatePublic Art and CoffeeTrivia Night With an Exit PlanDog-Friendly Park MeetGallery Opening Drop-InFood Hall Two-Stop DateLibrary Exhibit DateBeginner Pottery PaintingWeekend Flea Market BrowseOne-Hour Aquarium RouteBakery Taste TestDaytime Street Fair Date
Read the first date guide 07Date Ideas for Married Couples20 ideas
Trade Your Usual RolesTen-Year Time CapsuleRedo a Bad DateTeach Your Hidden SpecialtyRelationship Yearbook NightNew Restaurant, Old QuestionsOne-Evening Shared KeepsakeSecret Snack and Song SwapRevisit Your Wedding MenuNo-Logistics DinnerNeighborhood Then and Now TourPick a New Shared RitualThe Other Person’s Perfect HourArchive the Inside JokesTake the Long Way to DinnerCouples Book Club for One EssayPlan a Micro-AdventureRelearn a Dance From Your PastHome Inventory of Good MemoriesTwenty-Dollar Anniversary
Read the long-term guide 08Date Ideas for Parents15 ideas
After-Bedtime Dessert BoardTwenty-Minute Porch DateNaptime Cafe at HomeBabysitter Handoff WalkOne-Episode Premiere NightKitchen Counter DateSchool-Night Mocktail TestEarly Breakfast Before the House WakesBackyard Blanket ResetLunch-Break Date CallSwap Bedtime, Save the DateDriveway Takeout DateAfter-Bedtime Story SwapTen-Minute Parent Appreciation DateMini Date Before Pickup
Read the parents guide 09Creative & DIY Date Ideas20 ideas
Air-Dry Clay Trinket SwapPaint the Same ViewMake a Custom Card DeckUpcycle One Ugly ObjectPottery Painting With a ThemeCollage a Shared WeekendMake a Stop-Motion ShortPrintmaking With Found ShapesDesign a Flag for TwoPhoto Booth From Household PropsBeginner Flower ArrangingHand-Bind a Tiny NotebookMake a Neighborhood Field GuideDecorate Thrifted FramesMake a Shared StampOne-Song Music VideoCreate a Signature Gift WrapSew a Simple PatchBuild a Cardboard CityWrite and Illustrate a Bad Children’s Book
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Dumpling Folding NightThree-Cheese TastingHomemade Pizza DraftCoffee Flight at HomeStreet-Food Progressive DinnerPasta Shape Taste TestFarmers Market DinnerMocktail Flavor LabBreakfast Sandwich BracketSushi Hand-Roll NightChocolate Percentage TestFood Truck Two-Stop TourSoup and Bread From ScratchHot Sauce LadderCookbook Cover ChallengeTea Around the WorldBuild-Your-Own Taco CounterBakery Crawl for TwoNo-Recipe Stir-FryIce Cream Sundae Draft
Read the food & drink guide 11Fall Date Ideas12 ideas
Apple Orchard Recipe DateLeaf-Peeping Backroad LoopPumpkin Patch Pick-OffCider Doughnut ComparisonFall Picnic With Soup ThermosCorn Maze Team RouteThrifted Sweater WalkHaunted History TourFire-Pit Question NightFall Farmers Market BasketScary Story Reading DateAutumn Photo Color Hunt
Read the fall guide 12Winter Date Ideas12 ideas
Hot Chocolate FlightHoliday Lights Walking RouteIce-Skating Beginner HourSnow-Day Soup SwapWinter Bookshop RefugeSnow Sculpture Mini ContestIndoor Greenhouse EscapeFondue Without the FussWinter Sunrise DriveCozy Mystery Puzzle NightWinter Market One-Bag DateBlanket-Fort Reading Hour
Read the winter guide 13Spring & Summer Date Ideas13 ideas
Berry-Picking BreakfastOutdoor Movie PicnicWildflower Trail WalkSunset Paddle and SnackPorch Lemonade TestDrive-In Movie NightGarden Center Plant PickBeach Breakfast DateOutdoor Concert Blanket SpotFirst Warm Evening PicnicFirefly Dusk WalkWatermelon Picnic ChallengeOpen-Window Dinner
Read the spring & summer guide 14Daytime Date Ideas13 ideas
Brunch and One Errand-Free HourMatinee and Early DinnerMorning Market BreakfastLibrary Two-Pick Reading DateLunch-Hour PicnicAquarium Before the CrowdsCafe Sketchbook MorningHistoric House TourBike Path Lunch LoopCoffee Roastery TourZoo One-Zone DateAfternoon Tea Without FormalitySunlit Photo Walk
Read the daytime guide 15Unique Date Ideas15 ideas
Alphabet Neighborhood DateSilent First Twenty MinutesRandom Map Pin AdventureTiny Awards CeremonyOne-Color DateTourist in Your Own Zip CodeTwo-Person Pop-Up ExhibitDice-Decided EveningVolunteer Then Debrief DateAudio Diary WalkMystery Destination EnvelopeMuseum of Your Future HomeFive Senses DateSunrise-to-Breakfast Micro TripConstraint-Card Date Night
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